Loving the Unlovable Child

1.5 CPDs, Run Time: 1:17:30

Dr. Montessori tells us, "All we really need to do is change our fundamental attitude to the child, and love him with a love which has faith in his personality and goodness; which sees not his faults but his virtues." But, as we all know, it is hard to change a fundamental attitude. It is hard to have faith in children when they are pushing every button; when they are continually "disruptive", "disrespectful", and "dis-regulated". Yet we are still called upon to love them even when they are at their most unlovable. In this lesson, we will explore practical solutions for maintaining your equanimity in the face of difficulty, and the incredible opportunities presented by "challenging" children.
Tom Brown is an AMI-trained guide specializing in both elementary and adolescent education, with an M.Ed. in Montessori Education and over a decade of experience teaching in public and private Montessori settings. He is the founder of Marigold Montessori, where he currently serves as an educational consultant, presenter, and coach. Tom has played a key role in establishing, leading, and supporting the growth of several Montessori schools and organizations in both the US and UK. He is also the editor of Direction Magazine, a publication of AMI UK. His work is driven by a deep commitment to social justice, ABAR (Anti-Bias, Anti-Racism) education, youth advocacy, and child-centered learning.